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     May we hear and learn from each other's Music of the Soul...
                           
Thank you for your entries ...   Joy B.


    
New Orleans Crisis  9/3/2005

     Music  Responses to 9/11/2001

     More Music of the Soul Moments

     Music of the Soul Responses to 9/11/2001


Caring for the Caregiver: The Use of Music and Music Therapy in Grief and Trauma.  A collection of reflections on music therapy interventions provided as a part of the New York City Music Therapy Relief Project, sponsored by AMTA and the Recording Academy after September 11th, 2001. Edited by Joanne V. Loewy and Andrea Frisch Hara. Each chapter is written by a different therapist involved in the project. ISBN #1-884914-07-1  Available through http://www.musictherapy.org/products/products.html

 

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The Boys Choir of Harlem Sings Hope and Inspiration, joined by the Girls Choir of Harlem.  This  CD was created in response to 9/11, by older children and teens who experienced New York's tragedies. 
 

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"Reflections On the Importance of Music in Dealing with the Tragedies of Sept. 11th," Voices: A World Forum for Music Therapy, by Barbara Wheeler
 

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"Reflections from a composer whose studio was on the 91st tower of Tower One"
 

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Recommend: "Peace through World Music" website

Familiar Music, With New Meanings, in Response to  9/11/01:  experienced in community memorials, commemorations, and gatherings
Amazing Grace
America the Beautiful
Bridge Over Troubled Water
(The) Dance
Eagles' Wings
Eternal Life (Prayer of St. Francis)
God Bless America
I Hope You Dance
Imagine
It's So Hard to Say Goodbye
Hero
Let There Be Peace On Earth
(The) Lord's Prayer
My Country 'Tis of Thee
New York, New York
New York State of Mind
O God, Our Help In Ages Past
Precious Lord, Take My Hand
Psalm 23 (various settings)
Requiem (Brahms, Faure, Rutter, Verdi)
That's What Friends Are For
This Land Is Your Land
(The) Star Spangled Banner
Walk On
You Are the Wind Beneath My Wings
You'll Never Walk Alone


VISIT www.musictherapy.org for the American Music Therapy Association 
(information, research,  referrals, resources
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More Music of the Soul Moments

 

"Adagio for Strings," Samuel Barber (1936)
When I first heard this score many years ago, it's depth seemed to settle deep within my soul.  When I would listen to its crying strings, there was something that was being said to me, but I was not fully understanding the voice in which they were speaking; until a few years later.  I was going through a difficult time in my life in which I did not think that I was ever to see the end.  One day during this period, I was writing some poetry and listening to Barber's music when the "Adagio for Strings" began to play.  I sat and listened with a surreal intensity because as the piece progressed, I was finally beginning to understand what the stringed voices were trying to convey to me through their imagery.  The composition sings of the trials and tribulations, pains and sorrows that all God's creatures must endure while we live on this planet.  But, as the music reaches its climax and drops into a pool of silence, the sound of a new horizon begins to be heard which, to me, represented the growth of my soul through all the difficult experiences I was encountering.  I am still amazed at how this one piece had the ability to effect the clarity to which I could see the problems I faced.  Now when I hear this music, I always seem to see my life in a different light.  --- Robert Florine - High Point, North Carolina   

"To A Wild Rose," by Edward McDowell
I never was one of those greenhouse roses.  Me?  I'm a WILD ROSE.  I was a rebellious kid in my parents' strict, religious household.  I moved to New York City to leave all that behind.  Years later, when my parents were aging, I came back to take care of them in that same house.  Me? I like jazz music--I've heard the best of 'em, live!  But this little "To A Wild Rose" thing gets to me.  It's simple, and free, and sings my spirit--- a wild rose--no longer bound.  I'm content to be back in the "greenhouse" walls of my childhood.  My freedom--now--is inside myself--it's not bound by these walls. ----  CW 

"Here is the Little Door," by Herbert Howells
A beautiful, strange and haunting Christmas Anthem, with wonderful variety of mood and a bitterness which matches the lyric's allusion to martydom.    -----  Simon -- Denmark 

"The Lord's Prayer, " by Malotte 
Back in 1956, my 10 year old daughter was diagnosed with a brain tumor.  After surgery to remove it, she went blind.  Hospitalized for weeks, I'd stay with her as much as I could.  Leaving her always broke my heart.  A kind doctor brought a record player to her room.  Every night when I had to leave, I'd turn on a recording of "The Lord's Prayer."  She always went to sleep peacefully with that.  My daughter died.  At her funeral, the soloist sang "The Lord's Prayer."  I couldn't take it.  It was too much.  Too painful. Too soon.  Too raw.  I'm grateful for that doctor's goodness.  I wish the singer had asked me ahead of time.  ---- GB  

"Blue Skies," sung by Willie Nelson
A few weeks before getting married, a little melody kept popping in my head.  It wouldn't leave me alone.  I knew it was a piece of "Blue Skies," but I've never owned the music--recording or score.  It's not even my style of music. I tracked it down and found the phrase.  I'd heard Joy B. (of this website) say to "listen to the music that pops into your consciousness.  It may hold treasure and wisdom, just like a dream."  This did.  I can't find the words of the song now, but they were so true.  Something about "never did things look so bright" and "how the time flies when you're in love."  I have no idea when or where I'd heard it, how it stuck with me, or where it came from.  It was true then, and still is, several years later.  ----  Suzanne Pershing, AZ  

"Everything in life responds to the song of the heart."
quote from Ernest Holmes, Founder of Church of Religious Science
sent by Val Cooper, Chula Vista, California
   

Christmas Eve Pain
I had a bad accident in 1988, requiring 6½ hours of surgery and a 2 week stay in the hospital.  The day I finally was released from the hospital was December 24, 1988.  My parents took me to the Christmas Eve church service.  I remember I ended up sleeping through most of the service, due to the medication I was on.  However, towards the beginning of the service, I remember one particular song that whenever I hear it, it strikes a raw nerve.  That song is "Silent Night."  No matter how many years pass, I just can't help but feel utter total grief whenever I hear "Silent Night."  Perhaps that explains why I have never really been able to enjoy Christmas since 1988.       ---- Stephen King, Jr., Canton, Georgia   

"Music is God's cool rain on the parched and thirsty soul."  anonymous
I found this in a music magazine years ago, and kept it on our refrigerator.  I also posted it in our Children's Choirs Resource Center at our church in Savannah, GA, through the 1970's.   In 1979, my husband's job transferred him to Saudi Arabia.  Married for 28 years, we moved  from our family-sized house to a tiny bachelor's apartment. As a woman, I was not allowed to drive, & therefore was confined to the apt. The heat and powder-like sand seemed to sift through our walls. A thermometer on our front veranda read 120 degrees as early as 6:30 a.m.  Separated from family and all that we knew as "home," our whole beings were "parched and thirsty." We were able to get some magnificent cassette recordings into the country.  Truly, the beautiful music was like "God's cool rain on our parched and thirsty souls."   ---- Jane Berger, Augusta, Georgia   

Music for Perspective, Reflection, and Soothing Environment 
Music soothes my soul.  I was blessed with a family that "LOVES" music.  Somehow classical and the good ole gospels bring tears of joy.  The tears are for those that I hold dear and I am reminded that I frequently fall down by not telling them "I LOVE YOU."  Music helps me to put things into perspective and provides a soothing environment for thought and reflection.  Organ music reminds me so much of a young girl I watched playing the big pipe organ in church.  I had goose bumps and tears.  That young girl is a grown woman now and she is one of my HERO's.    ----   Janice Anderson  

Ordinary Evening Music 
This is hard for me to describe.  There is hardly anything tangible that I can point to after hearing the music I'm about to describe, but my life is different now, subtly different, but richer, more nuanced, happier, filled with a kind of relaxed joy I have never experienced before.  It happened simply when a friend told me about a new musical artist he had heard and like immensely on mp3.com.  I went and listened on an ordinary evening and things have not been the same since.  I was swept up and transported somewhere, to a place I really don't know where, that was peaceful, tranquil and happy.  And the feeling has lasted and lasted.  The music was by a man named Claudio Cornucopius.  I go back everyday and listen and it has transformed by life!   Thank you for letting me share my experience with you. ----  Sharon Bartholemew  

"A Whole Lot of Loving,"  by Led Zepplin

"What Must I Do to Be Free?"

In memory of my hospice patients who've taught me about living and dying, I list titles of "soul" music they have shared with me. Behind each piece is a person,  a powerful life-story and depth encounter.  The names and stories remain anonymous, protecting confidentiality.  The memories and meanings strike fire in my soul ...    Joy Berger

        With A Made Up Mind, gospel song, author not known 
        Begin the Beguine, Artie Shaw
        Symphony #6, Movement 3, by Mahler (the section with the cowbells)
        Mother, It Is Night, sung by Laurel Masse & Ysaye M. Barnwell 
        The River, by Garth Brooks
        Amazing Grace
        Precious Lord, Take My Hand, by Thomas Dorsey
        It Ain't Easy to Say Goodbye, sung by Wynonna Judd
        How Can I Help You Say Goodbye?, sung Patti Loveless, written by Karen Taylor-Good
        Sophisticated Lady, by Duke Ellington, Irving Mills, & Mitchell Parish
        Requiem, the Soprano Aria, by Johannes Brahms
        You Are My Sunshine, by Jimmie Davis
        Let It Be, by John Lennon & Paul McCartney      
        Mozart, "anything by Mozart"
        Stardust, by Hoagie Carmichael
        Ave Maria, different versions (Bach - Gounod, Schubert)
        "I Sing Because I'm Happy, I Sing Because I'm Free," gospel
        There Is A Balm in Gilead, African-American spiritual
        Fanfare for the Common Man, by Aaron Copeland
        May the Bird of Paradise Fly Up Your Nose, by Jimmie Dickens
        Hymn of Promise, by Natalie Sleeth
        You'll Never Know, by Mack Gordon and Harry Warren
        Stille Nacht, Heilige Nacht (Silent Night, in German)
        The Streak!, sung by Ray Stevens
        Cappricio Italien, by Tchaikovsky
        In the Upper Room, sung by Mahalia Jackson
        Old Joe Clark (?), bluegrass folk song
        The Rose, sung by Bette Midler
        "We'll understand it better by and by...," gospel song
        O Come, O Come Emmanuel, plainchant
        Your Cheatin' Heart, by Hank Williams
        The Eensy Weensie Spider
        You'll Be In My Heart, by Phil Collins
        How Do You Solve a Problem Like Maria?, from The Sound of Music
        Go Rest High Upon the Mountain, by Vince Gill
        We Shall Overcome
        Feet of A Dancer, sung by Maura O'Connell
        I Believe I Can Fly, by R. Kelly
        "We wish you a Merry Christmas & a Happy New Year" (knowing death is near)
        Angels of Mercy (CD/cassette), by Kentucky Standard Band    
        Herbie Hancock's jazz
        Traumeri, by Robert Schumann
        I'm the Great Pretender (composer?)
        Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring, J. S. Bach
        Any Wedding Music
        You Made Me Love You, I Didn't Wanta Do It
        Fur Elise, by Beethoven
        On the Atchison, Topeka, and the Santa Fe, by Harry Warren
        Life's Railway to Heaven
        When We All Get to Heaven
        Cardboard Box
        I Saw the Light
        Six Little Ducks that I Once Knew, children's folk song
        . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . and many more . . . . . .

 

                                         

 

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